I've always felt that a hug is the ultimate sign of trust. Maybe that's because I know I can't defend myself against you if you decided to attack me. A kiss is more a sign of "I'm willing to share everything with you, even tastes and illness." A hug though... now if you're willing to make that much contact, put so much trust in a person to lower every defense you have, well now. That's saying something.
That's why I don't trust people that don't hug. It doesn't have to be a "Oh baby oh baby" embrace either. Just a brief little "I have you, you have me, we trust each other." Even one arm side hugs or bro-hugs (half embrace, half pat on the back) are acceptable.
It's hard to describe. Maybe it's just me. What do YOU think?
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